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Mom Life is definitely rough sometimes. The thing is though, we make it harder on ourselves than it has to be. Everyone these days is striving to be the perfect parent. I have a secret for you: there is no such thing as a perfect parent!

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We've all been there: the kid screaming in the grocery store because you said no, forgetting to send lunch to school, or even losing track of where your kid is for a few seconds (doesn't it always feel like hours though?).

FX's new comedy series from Louis CK and Pamela Adlon, Better Things, is shedding light on those days when you’re sleep-deprived and overwhelmed – and feeling maybe… perhaps… a little less than your best.

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There are so many times during the day that I'm pretty sure I've lost my mind and that's with Tom's help. I can't imagine doing it as a single parent, like Sam Fox. Between playing mom, dad, chauffeur, and ref, she does try to squeeze in a little “me-time”. We all know how important that is!

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You can catch this hilarious and relatable new comedy series on FX at 10pm on Thursdays. Head over to the Better Things site to watch some clips and the first episode!

We received a fun box to help an imperfect parent (that's everyone if you're not following along) feel a bit better. And… you have a chance to win the same gift basket! The gift basket contains:

  • Ray-Ban Sunglasses
  • Chipolo bluetooth keyring
  • Leather Clutch for mom’s things
  • Emergency Beauty Kit
  • Hypoallergenic travel pillow
  • Ultra-Soft travel pillow protector
  • Essential Oils Blend Mini
  • Skinny Lip Balm
  • “Credit Card” Mints

To enter, just leave me a comment below letting me know about a time you were an imperfect parent.

 

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  1. Melissa Storms says

    September 18, 2016 at 8:43 PM

    I once forgot that I was supposed to pick my daughter up after school, she never let me forget again.

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  2. Lauren says

    September 21, 2016 at 10:14 AM

    I was an imperfect parent yesterday, when I was trying to help my son with his homework and became super impatient.

    Reply
  3. beth says

    September 22, 2016 at 10:44 AM

    One time, I dropped the kiddos dinner on the floor, but still fed t to them anyway.

    Reply
  4. Rachel Jenkins says

    September 22, 2016 at 1:22 PM

    I have a lot of imperfect parenting moments, but one that I’d like to share is when I accidentally fell asleep while my son was awake. We just had our second baby and I was so exhausted! My son decided to explore outside while mommy was sleeping.? Thank god my neighbor brought him back, it scared the living daylights out of me! My most recent imperfect parenting moment ?

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    • Christina says

      September 23, 2016 at 11:23 AM

      Oh gosh! I can definitely relate to the straight zonking out after the second baby!

      Reply
    • Nicole S. says

      September 26, 2016 at 4:40 PM

      It happens to all of us. I once read something that said, “I was a perfect parent until I had kids!”. Isn’t that the truth? I remember doing the same thing when my daughter was born. Thank goodness my son just played with his toys, but it sure scared me. I think with the second child, they should send you home with a free nanny so Mommy can rest. Lol

      Reply
  5. Cami Valenzuela says

    September 22, 2016 at 3:35 PM

    To many to lol.. but the one that stands out is when I over slept my alarm and made my son late foreply the first day of second grade

    Reply
  6. Mindy DeLisi says

    September 22, 2016 at 7:11 PM

    When I Blame of of my kids for taking something and they never touched it. I feel so bad for doing that when I lose something.

    Reply
  7. ellen beck says

    September 22, 2016 at 8:39 PM

    I can think of many times but to name one… hmm. Probably not believing my daughter when she told me she didn’t do something when I was totally convinced she did and finding out she in fact didnt. She was grounded for something she wasnt involved in :/

    Reply
  8. Shakeia Rieux says

    September 23, 2016 at 5:22 AM

    I don’t have any kids so I can’t answer that

    Reply
  9. Gwendolyn J says

    September 25, 2016 at 1:57 PM

    I locked my 3 year old in the house while I checked the mailbox on my phone and forgot my keys they were on the table.

    Reply
  10. Kathy says

    September 26, 2016 at 7:46 AM

    When we were sitting in church and didn’t believe my child had to go to the bathroom

    Reply
  11. Nicole S. says

    September 26, 2016 at 4:37 PM

    I think we’re all imperfect parents every day! Nobody can do it all. But one of my lows was the time I forgot it was “early release day” and didn’t make it home from my daughter’s preschool before my son got dropped off by the bus. They have early release every Wednesday and he is my first child to go to school. I somehow thought it was Tuesday and totally forgot. He was a kindergartener. He was only home alone for 5 minutes but it was raining a little and he was screaming, “Mommy!” Looking for me. We have a safety plan and he remembered it, but our neighbor who he was supposed to go to if there was an emergency wasn’t home. By far, this was one of my worst parenting moments of my life. I still have anxiety over it and worry all the time. And I still feel horrible! But it helped me grow as a mother and my son was okay, so that’s what matters. :-/

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  12. JoAnn F says

    September 26, 2016 at 4:38 PM

    The time when my daughter was blamed by her sister for something she did not do. And I believed her sister!! I should have investigated more…..

    Reply
  13. DeAnna Keller says

    September 26, 2016 at 5:26 PM

    I can think of a few times I have been an imperfect parent. I’ve lost my temper, I have had nights where I didn’t want to cook, help my kids study and help with their homework. It’s nice to see I’m not the only mom who goes through stuff.

    Reply
  14. Heather D says

    September 26, 2016 at 6:15 PM

    I’m never a perfect parent. I think it’s important that my kids see that I’m not perfect but that I never stop trying.

    Reply
  15. Cori Westphal says

    September 26, 2016 at 7:14 PM

    One time when my daughter was about 2, she was sick. Up all night every hour on the hour. By about 4am I was pretty frustrated. She was crying and I went into her room in the dark, told her to go back to sleep and fixed her blankets. She started to fall back asleep, so I snuck out. She started crying about a half hour later, so I went back in and this time flipped on the lights. Turns out she was crying because she had thrown up in her bed! I was so tired, and it was dark, I had no idea she had made such a mess! Poor thing! And I had told her to go back to bed! After bathing her and stripping the bed, dosing out some medicine and rocking her back to sleep, I sat back and just felt awful about not turning those darn lights on! GAh!

    Reply
  16. Alex says

    September 26, 2016 at 7:19 PM

    We try really hard to set everyone up for success–for example, we don’t leave breakables on low surfaces. But when you leave a whole pot of caramel within easy reach…

    Reply
  17. Crystal McKinley says

    September 26, 2016 at 7:21 PM

    I tend to be imperfect on most days, but especially at that special time of the month.

    Reply
  18. Michelle D. says

    September 26, 2016 at 8:32 PM

    I have a ton but one that is terrible that I always seem to resort to is bribery. I will let you eat this candy if you do this type of bribery. Last time I was at a dodgers game and my family wanted to leave so I had to bribe them with buying them a souvenir in order for them to stay.

    Reply
  19. meredith says

    September 26, 2016 at 8:36 PM

    Mommy had to give herself a timeout in the laundry room since I got angry/overtired when my toddler had back to back tantrums…

    Reply
  20. Holly Mitkowski says

    September 26, 2016 at 9:55 PM

    When I forgot to pack their lunches completely!

    Reply
  21. Kathryn Hyatt says

    September 26, 2016 at 10:06 PM

    I once forgot I’d told my daughter I’d take her to the park. The next day she asked why we didn’t go. Broke my heart

    Reply
  22. Sarah Jestings says

    September 26, 2016 at 10:26 PM

    When I totally forgot about my daughters play till 1 hour before I had to be there. I barley made it I felt terrible.

    Reply
  23. Esther S says

    September 26, 2016 at 10:30 PM

    I’m most imperfect when I get impatient and raise my voice at my sons. My older son is more sensitive and has told me he hates when I do that and it broke my heart. I try to remember that moment before I yell or raise my voice.

    Reply
  24. Miss Kim says

    September 27, 2016 at 1:03 AM

    I forgot to pick up my kids from school one day. I fell asleep and when I woke up it didn’t register that they were supposed to be home. They were hysterical and thought something had happened to me! lol.

    Reply
  25. C Hui says

    September 27, 2016 at 2:51 AM

    I forced my daughter to take music lessons even though she didn’t want to just because I had always wanted to take them as a kid but my family was too poor. Needless to say, all I did was waste my money and she was so unhappy and quit as soon as she could.

    Reply
  26. Wehaf says

    September 27, 2016 at 10:02 AM

    I’m not a parent yet, but as a babysitter, I’ve definitely lost my temper when I should have kept my cool.

    Reply
  27. Jenny Scheldberg says

    September 27, 2016 at 5:47 PM

    I’m a full time stepmom and feel inadequate most of the time, lol. I guess I feel guilty at times for not wanting to go to certain events like the school carnival.

    Reply
  28. Maureen Ruble says

    September 27, 2016 at 8:04 PM

    I have three children and my biggest parenting blunder was the time that I was walking into my garage and there was a huge black racer snake. My toddler son was right next to me and I may have inadvertently pushed him towards the snake as I screamed and ran back into the house. He is 11 now and loves to remind me of the time that I threw him to the snakes. Not my finest moment!

    Reply
  29. Jill Rivera says

    September 27, 2016 at 8:18 PM

    I did not watch my four year old he got into the motor oil that my husband was changing. All over him! Bad parent.

    Reply
  30. naomie says

    September 27, 2016 at 9:29 PM

    I feel like an imperfect parent most days, but when I get a chance to sit back and relax, I realize it’s not that bad.

    Reply
  31. Birdiebee says

    September 27, 2016 at 10:09 PM

    I think I’ve been an imperfect parent throughout my parenting as I found what will work for one child does not necessarily work for the other child(ren). I just keep on learning one day at a time.

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  32. Meaghan says

    September 27, 2016 at 10:41 PM

    Hmmm…just one time I was imperfect? My husband usually does bath time, but when he had his wisdom teeth removed I allowed my LO (she was 10 months old at the time) go 5 days without a bath. I sponged her off with a wet wash cloth every day, but between working more than full time, taking care of my husband, and being a mom, baths didn’t happen as regularly as usual.

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  33. Ellen Casper says

    September 27, 2016 at 11:26 PM

    It was an out of uniform days for my kids and i I forget and sne them in their uniforms.

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  34. Jessica Lodge says

    September 27, 2016 at 11:32 PM

    Gee when haven’t I been an imperfect parent. My son who is 14 reminded me today of the time that I was putting his pajamas on and zipped his privates on accident. Mind you that was at least 10 years ago but apparently I’ve scarred him for life 🙁

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  35. Kristin McCall says

    September 27, 2016 at 11:34 PM

    I was an imperfect parent when I made my daughter play a sport when she was not very athletic.

    Reply
  36. Senna Kory says

    September 27, 2016 at 11:59 PM

    I was an imperfect parent when I didn’t stay patient. Sometimes I let a bad mood get the best of me.

    Reply
  37. Julie R says

    September 28, 2016 at 1:44 AM

    I am an imperfect parent just about every day! I have a 2 year old and a 5 month old and they both need things at the same time. It’s a constant game of who to help first and then feeling bad for the other child. I do my best every day though.

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  38. Sarah Gillespie says

    September 28, 2016 at 3:08 AM

    I feel like every day I am an imperfect parent. But, I think that’s OK. I try my hardest and love my kids with all I have, and they won’t ever doubt that. That’s all that matters. One time that does stick out was when my son was in the NICU and my daughter (3) didn’t really understand why I couldn’t be around. It’s hard to feel like an adequate parent when you can’t be two places at once, and even when I was with one of them I only felt like half a parent. It’s hard. We’re all imperfect parents, but we’re trying.

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  39. Trisha Burgess says

    September 28, 2016 at 6:56 AM

    I’m pretty sure I’m imperfect on the daily! Just this morning we woke up late and had to rush to get everything done and we’re all yelling for no good reason! It all worked and got on the bus on time! It’s a daily struggle sometimes!

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  40. wendy browne says

    September 28, 2016 at 8:56 AM

    I didn’t get either of my now college aged kids driving in high school. I feel like I really held their lives back by not giving them that freedom until they were already in college.

    Reply
  41. Jennifer Wilson says

    September 28, 2016 at 10:17 AM

    I was helping out our town build a new playground and forgot to come home to nurse the baby to sleep! She fell asleep just fine (11months) but I felt terrible!

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  42. Tammy Woodall says

    September 28, 2016 at 10:17 AM

    I’m a single Mom with an (Full-time) absentee father. Once I was at work and my 14 year old son wanted to fix himself an after school snack – when he reached for a can of Ravoli, he accidentally hit the can next to it and the can tipped over and landed on the top of his bare foot. When he called me at work crying because it hurt so bad and wanted to know what to do. I started crying to because I wasn’t there with him to take care of him. I told him to put on ice on it and once it was numb to call me back and let me know how he was. After he iced it for 10 minutes he said it felt better and that it would just leave a bruise and the swelling was already going down. I hated that I was over 50 miles away and couldn’t immediately be there for him. To this day, it killed me that he was in pain, and that I wasn’t there for him when he needed me.

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  43. Rachelle Anderson says

    September 28, 2016 at 10:59 AM

    When I yell at kids whether they earned it or not…always feel so guilty about that!

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  44. Alyssa F says

    September 28, 2016 at 12:09 PM

    When my kid got “honor roll” and i dint even think to take her out or do anything with her. it dawned on me weeks later and i eventually celebrated her success. But man am i annoyed i didnt think about that imediately.

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  45. Elena says

    September 28, 2016 at 12:27 PM

    When my son was on the floor at Target screaming and crying because he didn’t want to go shopping

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  46. Michelle says

    September 28, 2016 at 12:37 PM

    I wore two different flip flops to the pediatrician.

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  47. Tamra H says

    September 28, 2016 at 2:13 PM

    I’ve accused my kid of making things up, and then found out they were telling the truth. Parenting Fail.

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  48. Steph says

    September 28, 2016 at 2:24 PM

    I keep doing my daughters homework wrong!

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  49. deanna says

    September 28, 2016 at 2:33 PM

    There is this one time I was trying to take a selfie of my baby climbing on my back ad hugging me and when I snapped it she tripped and fell on her face. The picture caught her on the ground in mid crash. awesome mom!

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  50. Ashley B. says

    September 28, 2016 at 4:11 PM

    A time when I was an imperfect parent? Psssh, do you want an essay? I’ve given the kids hot dogs for dinner, lost my temper more times than I’d like to say and snuck the candy to the nearest closet.

    Am I the perfect parent? Absolutely not. I am a great one though and my kids are so loved.

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  51. Gabrielly says

    September 28, 2016 at 4:38 PM

    I once forgot when was her birthday.

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  52. brandi swanson says

    September 28, 2016 at 5:36 PM

    I feel like I am an imperfect parent every time my husband gets deployed. It is hard to manage everybody’s feelings during a difficult time!

    Reply
  53. Corey Olomon says

    September 28, 2016 at 7:17 PM

    I’m definitely an imperfect parent. I do at times lose my temper, but I’ve worked very hard to make that a very rare occasion.

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  54. Christine says

    September 28, 2016 at 10:37 PM

    Once I saw a house caught on fire, and I said, “dang!” Now my 18 month old things all fires are called ‘dang.’ Lol (wish she didn’t know that word!)

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  55. Kristie says

    September 28, 2016 at 11:14 PM

    I don’t have kids but I had a cat and I took her to have dental work but she died from complications the next day. I felt awful. She was 14 but still. Babysitting when I was a teen was interesting. I recall a little girl throwing her chicken nuggets. And not wanting to go to sleep and screaming and screaming. kristiedonelson(at)gmail(dot)com Thank you.

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  56. Miranda Ward says

    September 28, 2016 at 11:37 PM

    I was an inperfect parent when I yelled at my daughter the other day for being emotional about something that bothered her.

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  57. megan tilley says

    September 29, 2016 at 12:03 AM

    A lot of times, I hate to admit it. I try really hard. Sometimes, I can get impatient when my daughter zones out and won’t listen and I have to repeat myself.

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  58. robin s. says

    September 29, 2016 at 11:51 AM

    My daughter is super scared of going to the doctor. So, many times I will bribe her by telling her I will get her an ice cream when we leave. I sometimes get weird looks from her doctor when I do this. It makes me feel like an imperfect parent but at least my daughter is happy.

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  59. Louise says

    September 29, 2016 at 11:54 AM

    All the time! Losing patience is never a good thing, but it happens after a stressful day at the office. louisejarm@gmail.com

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  60. natasha lamoreux says

    September 29, 2016 at 3:57 PM

    So many times have I been an imperfect parent. Dealing with a teenage daughter and not being as patient and understanding as I should be is probally at the top of the list.

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  61. Lorri K says

    September 29, 2016 at 4:54 PM

    Parenting is really, really hard. I don’t think anything could prepare you for it. Not boot camp, not jump training, not becoming a EMT, doctor or fireman. It is just plain hard. Sleepless nights, fussy kids, and the ever ending list of undone things that continues to grow with each passing minute. I think that patience is the hardest lesson any new parent learns. Being patient and knowing when someone needs a pat on the back instead of punishment. These are the hard lessons that make for good parents. Learning to be prepared was a hard one. I was raised as someone who was prepared for any and all emergencies. But it took me a while to learn to be early, to prep the kids up, and make sure that they arrived to all activities and events including school and clubs feeling ‘ready’ not rushed. This took a while, and I still slip, but bit by bit I have learned to teach my children through example. I know this isn’t a specific time and event, rather a time frame. Early parent verses experienced maybe?

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  62. amber whitehead says

    September 29, 2016 at 6:48 PM

    A lot of times I am sure but the other day I got frustrated during homework time with my son. We both ended up taking a time out and starting over.

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  63. Lissa Crane says

    September 29, 2016 at 7:57 PM

    I have been an imperfect parent a few times, but the most memorable is when I was so busy yelling at my kiddo that I put on the coffee maker without the glass pot underneath and since my back was turned, the coffee poured for a few minutes before I realized it and it went all over the place!

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  64. Michelle C says

    September 29, 2016 at 8:07 PM

    It happens a lot. I find myself being grouchy when my kids try to avoid going to bed. By that time, I’m too tired to be my kindest self.

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  65. Jillian Too says

    September 29, 2016 at 8:22 PM

    If it’s a really crazy day, I sometimes resort to cereal for dinner for our little guy.

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  66. Emily says

    September 29, 2016 at 8:22 PM

    When I forgot towels for my kids swim lessons.

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  67. Lauren Becker says

    September 29, 2016 at 9:12 PM

    I’m not a parent yet, but I do have a lot of little kids in my life and I don’t think anyone is a perfect parent, aunt, grandparent, etc. It’s all about doing your best and loving them.

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  68. Chelsey L. says

    September 29, 2016 at 10:30 PM

    Today I let my little climb into her highchair by herself, she slipped on the way up and hit her knee really hard. I felt so bad because I wanted to let her be independent but I should have helped her into the chair!

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  69. Michelle J. says

    October 4, 2016 at 4:58 PM

    My little one ran away–bad parenting moment!

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  70. Nancy Loring says

    November 17, 2016 at 7:47 AM

    A few years back I had taken my son who was 15, his friend same age and my daughters 8 and 7 on a road trip from where we live in northern New Hampshire to the sunny beaches of Florida. The trip was awesome but on our way home I sopped at a gas station in North Carolina to gas up. bathroom break and snacks. I finished what I needed to do looked in my van saw my three kids and off I went. We were on 95 for about 10 minutes before my son asked where his friend was. OMG I left him at the gas station. I got off the next exit and headed back towards the gas station if I could only remember what exit I had taken for the gas station. After a few wrong exits and almost 45 minutes after I left him we found the gas station. The whole ordeal didn’t seem to bother him. He thought it was funny while my heart was pounding out of my chest from fear. My kids are older now and they still tease me about this.

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